Monday, 11 February 2013


Hey peeps,
The season of love is upon us again, even though I don't see any reason why love should not be celebrated everyday of our lives......some people actually go off on how this date is supposed to be very special... blah blah blah.
Trust me I am a strong believer in love and very romantic but I dont expect you to show me love in just one day out of the 365 days in the year. This belef has been misconstrued by a lot of people and it is now the period where all sorts of attrocities happen, innocent girls lose their virginities all in the name of valentine's day......the devil has sold so many lies to people all in the name of valentines day.......a lot of ladies have also lost good relationships because of their belief in valentine.
Someone may have shown you all the love and attention you deserve but because he didnt buy you flowers for valentine all of a sudden he's not romantic......people show love in different ways and I am sorry to say that you cannot force someone to love you the way you want to be loved, if you cant live with the way they express love to you while dating there's no point marrying them and complaining tomorrow.
I reacently read an article in Myne Whitman's blog Dear Myne - I am Happily Married to an Igbo Man its a must read for all as it did further open my eyes to a few things on making the right choice and understanding what or who you are signing up for and learn to live with the decision you make.
Don't be deceived, love is truly what you make of it, don't be fooled with the drama that goes on in the world and enjoy your own relationship the way it is cos remember you signed up for it from the onset so make an effort to make it work and not complain.
If your spouse did not go out of his/her way to make this valentine special (according to your terms) don't go off on him/her, rather make an effort to improve on things..
Wishing you the very best.

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